06 October 2008

Church Socials

So what happened/happens at your church socials?

Ours used to be dominated by country dancing but not so here: here it was games one of which apparently involved sitting in a circle and winking at someone else (wink murde,r I think) but no ,the person winked at had to go and sit ion the knee of the winker! The 80+ gentleman who told me about this did say he couldn't remember how they got off your knee! One does have to worry abou the morals of this community!

We aslo had games but the country dancing was the highlight, especially as the lovely lady who used to organise it was a poor caller and so chaos followed. One Church conference the danc einvolved moving on to a new partner every so often but someone always seemed to end up with no partner so sat down. Gradually the numbers dwindled to just a few and the caller carried on oblivious whilst we all had a good laugh as we watched the farce continue.

One strange thing connected with country dancing though: I used to do it a school and sometimes we would go out and do demonstrations. One day, after I was maaried, I was looking at my husband's photos and discovered one of me, and others, dancing at a church fair - a member of the church was a teacher who had connections with my school. How's that - a photo of your future wife aged 9 or 10 when we didn't actually meet till I was 15 when I started going to his church!



Comments

I have not played Murder Wink at a Church Social. At KMFC they are particularly fond of Beetle Drives [I had never done THAT before I came to Leicestershire] which I loathe.

Very impressed by your Photograph story. The only link we have discovered is that in 1976 we were both in selfridges in Oxford on the same day entering a competition to win the motorbike on display! Neither of us won it, sadly.

Posted by: Angela Almond | 06 October 2008

Yup, beetle drives, definitely a Midlands thing.

Used to have hotpot suppers with decent pickled red cabbage and pickled beetroot "up north" followed by some sort of quiz or a sort of variety show where everyone did a 'turn' of some sort.

As for sitting on people's knees, I'm shocked, did the deacon's know? Oh, it was the deacons!

Obviously my lack of participation in country dancing display teams or yearning after motorbikes explains my status in life!

Posted by: Catriona | 06 October 2008

OK here goes that darned winking game not only for anniversaries but for ths Junior church as well! . suspect
the same desporate organisers!!

barn dances tried sucessfully late seventies but stopped due to leving active members,

do all small bapist churches play the beetle game in their twilight years ??

Posted by: Ian | 07 October 2008

shouldn't that be "death-watch-beetle game" Ian? And yes, they probably do.

Posted by: C | 08 October 2008

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